Substitute

Are you someone’s substitute?Filling in for another, part time lover, assistant or friend?
Where are you depositing your heart, soul...or pieces of it? Is your heart...soul...whole to begin with?

Are you somebody’s fool? Plaything...?? Disposable paper plate they eat out of?

See what’s really twisted ladies is that you believe that you are getting what you wish as well , ..."no strings attached"...you get the Gucci, the free drinks, the holidays...if that is what you believe you are worth.That’s the funniest things ever..."no strings attached”...that would compare you to an animal with simple procreation rules...no intelligence......no soul...no spirit...

‘No strings attached’...doesn’t exist...even in the animal kingdom there’s dominance over breeding...and strategies....so, woman...are you reducing you’re status to that of an animal, a mere mammal?

You are a complex being...mind, body, soul...spirit...when you connect, you connect on a spiritual level...and what you attach yourself to and whom you commune with determines what you let into your soul...and inevitably, who you become.

Is your soul broken in pieces...scattered across: I mean:...Tom had some (on and off fling)...Daniel on the one night (drunken stupor)...James for 4 years (you loved him right?)...Eric over the weekend (he took you to Spain last year and his wife doesn’t know how to treat him right like you do).

What will you have to give when you find Mr. almost right and head to the marriage counter (seemingly marriage is becoming a mere transaction these days....)

Are you a number in someone’s little black book...number 178......the 3am call?

He didn’t create you to be second best, someone’s toy...someone’s fool...someone’s replacement, pass time? Don’t you know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made ...that He knew you and you’re purpose as you lay in secret in your mother’s womb?Do you not understand the price He paid for you? You’re so precious, a Kings daughter...a princess.

Woman you are a pearl why do you give yourself to the pigs?

The men in this generation have lost their identity in women, sex, and drink...a confused generation. Man is busy creating substitutes to fulfil his lust, reduced to destroying and conquering women...when he was created to go out and conquer nations and protect his one woman at all cost.

The woman follows as the man leads...the family, society. So where are we headed?

Why would you settle to be someone’s mistress and not someone’s Queen?

Are you someone’s fall back ‘friend’, trying to please everyone you come across, wasting your energy on every human you encounter along the way. Feeling spent and used?

Ask Him to pick up the pieces, to gather your soul from the corners of the earth and fill you with His love and affection making you whole again and complete. Ask Him to show you the light...He is the light...tell Him you know no better...and to shield you from the predators, the soul takers and soul breakers ...Ask Him to be the guard of your heart, mind, body , spirit. Do not go it alone, you may make it 1 day, even a week without picking up that 3am call... you may make it a month, year...without seeing the one who has the “access code” to your heart, ...and thus, to your pants...no ID required. You cannot do it alone, you’re body’s weak, fallen from Eves bite of the apple...you need body armour...soul armour...That’s what He is there for. He is your defender, protector.

Next time Dan calls ...don’t pick up... (His voice makes your knees weak remember...)
Next time Susan asks you for an emergency loan (read-to buy a Gucci bag)...tell her you’re budget for the month is done...
Next time he sends you flowers...bin them...better yet...visit the hospital, someone needs flowers, a lonely heart, who never receives visitors, brighten up their day...no need to ruin a good set of flowers.:-)
Run woman, run... the minute you choose to ‘talk’ over coffee about his upcoming divorce (read-never leaving wife but will tell you what you need to hear) you have already lost. Run and don’t look back...

See what you have to understand is that some people do ‘seem’ to have unlimited access to your spirit...until you ask Him to close that door...you tweaked it open the minute you were attracted to Richard, and flung it wide open the minute you bedded him.

Woman, thou are a precious stone that should be set up on a pedestal and the one you are with should make you shine brighter and brighter each day, not tainting you with lies, deceit...and butchering you’re soul into pieces.

Ask Him for a prince in your life who will raise you up and love you unconditionally...and He will provide. A man who knows that destiny and purpose are key and most importantly, a man after Gods own heart.